Promiscuity Is The Real Cause Of Romance Scams
"New online research led by the University of Leicester reveals that over 200,000 people living in Britain may have fallen victim to online romance scams"
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2011/09/110927192347.htm?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+sciencedaily%2Fscience_society+%28ScienceDaily%3A+Science+%26+Society+News%29
I claim, that the success of online romance scams is caused by the difference between what is available and what men are looking for driven by their instincts. Male animal instincts and promiscuity are the cause of the scammers' success. If the same portion of women as of men would want or accept flings instead of commitment, if there were an equilibrium of both genders looking for the same kind of relationships, there were no successful scammers.
The basic of market economy is the simple fact, that the more something is scarce, the more people are willing to pay for it. Nobody would pay for what is free and plentiful. By their innate animal instincts, men have a much higher need for sexual homeostasis by using indiscriminately any haphazard female body than what is available for free.
Therefore men can get sexual homeostation by force, manipulation or earn it, but it is not freely available. They can 'buy' homeostation by giving a decent woman what she wants, monogamy, commitment, reliability. They can otherwise buy homeostation by paying money. Men with enough money and/or who are lacking the qualities to be accepted by a monogamous women prefer to just buy homoestation by money. The flourishing markets of prostitution and pornography provide ample evidence of this. If women were as promiscuous by instinct as are most men, there were no market.
Unfortunately the tolerance and even positive general acceptance of promiscuity blurs the fact, that it is a man's problem, which is detrimental to women. But the media responsible for the brainwashing of people are usually dominated by men. Often they are influential enough to brainwash even women to lose all awarenes of what is beneficial and what is detrimental for themselves.
Men's affliction to need sexual homeostasis is bad enough as it is by causing urges. But the oversexation and growing tolerance and condoning of promiscuity in many modern societies has done a lot of damage even to men themselves, who deprive themselves of what would be most beneficial for them long-term. I described this in entry 404 about men's marshmallow test.
Many men, who are ignorant of evolutionary biology, have been brainwashed to believe the myth, that women are only repressed from being as promiscuous as men. Instead of earning homeostation by self-control and monogamy, they annoy decent women with their attempts to use their bodies and then they are surprised to get rejected. The tragedy of this myth is that the men, who project their own promiscuity upon women, are deprived of the awareness of the emotional damage of promiscuity upon monogamous women. The women, who are brainwashed by this myth, are even more pathetic, because until they know better by experience, they reinforce men's belief in this myth.
1. Men as targets.
Scammers are taking advantage of this market situation. Their male bait are bodies of women, that make the targets drool over their pictures. The targets are made not only to believe to be able to buy the gratitude of the bait, but also to buy more control over her than they can expect to gain over women from their own country.
2. Women as targets.
Being a woman, I myself have been either contacted by hundreds of scammers or have seen their profiles. The scammers' baits are the fiction of monogamous, committing men, who have the morals and self-control not to be promiscuous. Their targets are especially elderly lonely women, whom they expect to be most prone to have money and to be of a generation less tolerant to the uncommitted use of women's bodies.
I know, how to recognize them, mainly because they are lacking the intellectual capacities of mature university educated men and because their fiction is created to attract their more typical targets, who are religious breeders.
Those many men, who are brainwashed to believe in the myth of female promiscuity, express in their profiles not only, that they are looking for a long term relationship, but also their wish or willingness to have flings, non-strings-attached fun, friends with benefits and such. They are ignorant, that this way they are repulsive to decent women and drive them to prefer the scammers. The targets get attracted by the bait of the profiles of those fictitious monogamous men, who seem to be the rare pearls in the gutter of promiscuity. Tragically they are scammers instead.
In entry 101 I already declared promiscuity as a scourge of humanity. Male promiscuity and the male delusion of female promiscuity are also enabling the romance scams. That is one more reason to call it a scourge.
1. Men as targets.
Scammers are taking advantage of this market situation. Their male bait are bodies of women, that make the targets drool over their pictures. The targets are made not only to believe to be able to buy the gratitude of the bait, but also to buy more control over her than they can expect to gain over women from their own country.
2. Women as targets.
Being a woman, I myself have been either contacted by hundreds of scammers or have seen their profiles. The scammers' baits are the fiction of monogamous, committing men, who have the morals and self-control not to be promiscuous. Their targets are especially elderly lonely women, whom they expect to be most prone to have money and to be of a generation less tolerant to the uncommitted use of women's bodies.
I know, how to recognize them, mainly because they are lacking the intellectual capacities of mature university educated men and because their fiction is created to attract their more typical targets, who are religious breeders.
Those many men, who are brainwashed to believe in the myth of female promiscuity, express in their profiles not only, that they are looking for a long term relationship, but also their wish or willingness to have flings, non-strings-attached fun, friends with benefits and such. They are ignorant, that this way they are repulsive to decent women and drive them to prefer the scammers. The targets get attracted by the bait of the profiles of those fictitious monogamous men, who seem to be the rare pearls in the gutter of promiscuity. Tragically they are scammers instead.
In entry 101 I already declared promiscuity as a scourge of humanity. Male promiscuity and the male delusion of female promiscuity are also enabling the romance scams. That is one more reason to call it a scourge.
