Interpersonal Courage and Interpersonal Cowardice 3
This is another variety of interpersonal cowardice, when a jerk uses a woman as an outlet for his own personal problems.
A man can feel pain, depression, helplessness, anxieties and such because of emotional baggage, that he has brought along into the relationship.
1. A mature, trusting, bonded man reveals this truthfully to his partner and gets her support. Supporting the other is a part of the role of an intrinsically committed partner, it is for better or for worse, for joy and for sorrow.
2. The interpersonal coward hides these feelings. But those feelings build up pressure in him like inside a pressure cooker. They find a valve, but in a form, that he can allow himself as consistent with his idea, how he is supposed to behave as a man.
He converts all those feelings into anger, aggression, wrath, fury and rage. He relieves himself of the pressure by terrorizing, intimidating and stressing his partner.
A man, who would use me as a scapegoat for his bad temper, is not suitable for me.
This is another variety of interpersonal cowardice, when a jerk uses a woman as an outlet for his own personal problems.
A man can feel pain, depression, helplessness, anxieties and such because of emotional baggage, that he has brought along into the relationship.
1. A mature, trusting, bonded man reveals this truthfully to his partner and gets her support. Supporting the other is a part of the role of an intrinsically committed partner, it is for better or for worse, for joy and for sorrow.
2. The interpersonal coward hides these feelings. But those feelings build up pressure in him like inside a pressure cooker. They find a valve, but in a form, that he can allow himself as consistent with his idea, how he is supposed to behave as a man.
He converts all those feelings into anger, aggression, wrath, fury and rage. He relieves himself of the pressure by terrorizing, intimidating and stressing his partner.
A man, who would use me as a scapegoat for his bad temper, is not suitable for me.
