I am a woman born 1949 and my quest is to find a mindmate
to grow old together as a mutually devoted couple
in a relationship based upon the
egalitarian rational commitment paradigm
bonded by intrinsic commitment
as each other's safe haven and secure basis.

The purpose of this blog is to enable the right man
to recognize us as reciprocal mindmates and
to encourage him to contact me:

The entries directly concerning,
who could be my mindmate,
are mainly at the beginning.
If this is your predominant interest,
I suggest to read this blog in the same order
as it was written, following the numbers.

I am German, therefore my English is sometimes faulty.

Maybe you have stumbled upon this blog not as a potential match.
Please wait a short moment before zapping.

Do you know anybody, who could be my mindmate?
Your neighbour, brother, uncle, cousin, colleague, friend?
If so, please tell him to look at this blog.
While you have no reason to do this for me,
a stranger, maybe you can make someone happy, for whom you care.

Do you have your own webpage or blog,
which someone like my mindmate to be found probably reads?
If so, please mention my quest and add a link to this blog.

Friday, November 5, 2010

137. A Book and Movie Recommendation for Women

A Book and Movie Recommendation for Women

I am writing this blog to find my mindmate.   But I know from her comment on entry 113, that there is at least one woman reading this blog, whose aversion to jerks seems to match mine.

For her and other likeminded women, I recommend two very good books:   

Kathy Krajco:  What Makes Narcissists Tick?

Martha Stout:  The Sociopath Next Door

Sandy Hotchkiss:  Why Is It Always About You?

These three books are a very good training program in recognizing jerks before getting involved with them.   

And as a special treat, I recommend also the movie SWITCH
In that movie a jerk gets, what he has deserved.