I am a woman born 1949 and my quest is to find a mindmate
to grow old together as a mutually devoted couple
in a relationship based upon the
egalitarian rational commitment paradigm
bonded by intrinsic commitment
as each other's safe haven and secure basis.

The purpose of this blog is to enable the right man
to recognize us as reciprocal mindmates and
to encourage him to contact me:

The entries directly concerning,
who could be my mindmate,
are mainly at the beginning.
If this is your predominant interest,
I suggest to read this blog in the same order
as it was written, following the numbers.

I am German, therefore my English is sometimes faulty.

Maybe you have stumbled upon this blog not as a potential match.
Please wait a short moment before zapping.

Do you know anybody, who could be my mindmate?
Your neighbour, brother, uncle, cousin, colleague, friend?
If so, please tell him to look at this blog.
While you have no reason to do this for me,
a stranger, maybe you can make someone happy, for whom you care.

Do you have your own webpage or blog,
which someone like my mindmate to be found probably reads?
If so, please mention my quest and add a link to this blog.

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

111. Rephrasing My Quest

Rephrasing My Quest

I have been struggling for a while to find an accurate expression.   I called the love of Dorine and André Gorz deep bonding, but I know now, what to call them:  A Devoted Couple. 
For me as an atheist, the word devotion has no religious meaning at all, but since my role model of deeply bonded couples are often called 'devoted couples', I will use this expression for the same purpose.  

Therefore, I rephrase my own quest: 

I am looking for my mindmate to become a 
devoted couple.