I am a woman born 1949 and my quest is to find a mindmate
to grow old together as a mutually devoted couple
in a relationship based upon the
egalitarian rational commitment paradigm
bonded by intrinsic commitment
as each other's safe haven and secure basis.

The purpose of this blog is to enable the right man
to recognize us as reciprocal mindmates and
to encourage him to contact me:

The entries directly concerning,
who could be my mindmate,
are mainly at the beginning.
If this is your predominant interest,
I suggest to read this blog in the same order
as it was written, following the numbers.

I am German, therefore my English is sometimes faulty.

Maybe you have stumbled upon this blog not as a potential match.
Please wait a short moment before zapping.

Do you know anybody, who could be my mindmate?
Your neighbour, brother, uncle, cousin, colleague, friend?
If so, please tell him to look at this blog.
While you have no reason to do this for me,
a stranger, maybe you can make someone happy, for whom you care.

Do you have your own webpage or blog,
which someone like my mindmate to be found probably reads?
If so, please mention my quest and add a link to this blog.

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

112. Pseudo-Liberation


Many people declare themselves as having been liberated during the wave of liberations in the 60s in several western countries.   But overthrowing the permission of a deity in church for physical intimacy in favor of promiscuity was like jumping from the frying pan into the fire.   It was only replacing the brainwashing and pressure to conform with traditions and the church and allow to the brainwashed instead to conform with pseudo modernity and the peer group.  

The same instinct driven particles, who before like sheep submitted to religion and to procreation in the name of their deity, now like sheep submit to promiscuity because it is proclaimed as progressive by some men, whose own emotional dysfunction impeded them to get bonded.   

True liberation does not come by imitation of others or following a trend, true liberation comes from the own brain, from thinking for oneself and discover by independent thinking,  what is really beneficial for the individual.