I am a woman born 1949 and my quest is to find a mindmate
to grow old together as a mutually devoted couple
in a relationship based upon the
egalitarian rational commitment paradigm
bonded by intrinsic commitment
as each other's safe haven and secure basis.

The purpose of this blog is to enable the right man
to recognize us as reciprocal mindmates and
to encourage him to contact me:

The entries directly concerning,
who could be my mindmate,
are mainly at the beginning.
If this is your predominant interest,
I suggest to read this blog in the same order
as it was written, following the numbers.

I am German, therefore my English is sometimes faulty.

Maybe you have stumbled upon this blog not as a potential match.
Please wait a short moment before zapping.

Do you know anybody, who could be my mindmate?
Your neighbour, brother, uncle, cousin, colleague, friend?
If so, please tell him to look at this blog.
While you have no reason to do this for me,
a stranger, maybe you can make someone happy, for whom you care.

Do you have your own webpage or blog,
which someone like my mindmate to be found probably reads?
If so, please mention my quest and add a link to this blog.

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

122. Men's Emotional Intelligence

Men's Emotional Intelligence

I just happened to read, that October has been declared as the Emotional Intelligence Awareness Month.  
There is also some valuable material for reading about emotional intelligence on this site. 

Concerning relationships, this is, again in my own opinion, one important facet of men's emotional intelligence:

When a man guided by emotional intelligence wants a woman, he does not get involved with her, unless he has verified, what attributes and requirements make a man suitable for that specific woman.   He verifies this not only in his own opinion, but also by checking with the perception and evaluation of the woman herself.
If he discovers to be unsuitable for her, then he either makes himself suitable, if he is able and motivated, or he does not get involved.