I am a woman born 1949 and my quest is to find a mindmate
to grow old together as a mutually devoted couple
in a relationship based upon the
egalitarian rational commitment paradigm
bonded by intrinsic commitment
as each other's safe haven and secure basis.

The purpose of this blog is to enable the right man
to recognize us as reciprocal mindmates and
to encourage him to contact me:

The entries directly concerning,
who could be my mindmate,
are mainly at the beginning.
If this is your predominant interest,
I suggest to read this blog in the same order
as it was written, following the numbers.

I am German, therefore my English is sometimes faulty.

Maybe you have stumbled upon this blog not as a potential match.
Please wait a short moment before zapping.

Do you know anybody, who could be my mindmate?
Your neighbour, brother, uncle, cousin, colleague, friend?
If so, please tell him to look at this blog.
While you have no reason to do this for me,
a stranger, maybe you can make someone happy, for whom you care.

Do you have your own webpage or blog,
which someone like my mindmate to be found probably reads?
If so, please mention my quest and add a link to this blog.

Saturday, July 28, 2012

545. Erototoxins - What All Men Should Be Aware Of But Very Few Are

545.   Erototoxins - What All Men Should Be Aware Of But Very Few Are

In entry 544 I wrote about how the influence of the oversexation of the media has aggravated men's innate tendency towards an asymmetrical basic attitude towards women as described in entry 543

This is not my imagination.   There are scientific sources.    This study is about the damage done on men's brains by magazines like Playboy, Hustler and Penthouse.

It is an important article to be read entirely, especially by those men, who do consume pornography with the naive illusion, that it would not affect them.    No selection of quotes could sufficiently represent the scope of the outrage reported in its 20 pages.   

This article taught me a new word:  Erototoxins.   In Reisman's own words:
"Pornography, “sexually explicit media,” function as “Erototoxins,” the toxic side of eros, converting complex persons worldwide into objects one ‘screws into’ via one or more of several orifices."

Cigarettes are sold with obligatory warnings printed upon the package as these:  
Smoking kills 
Smoking seriously harms you and others around you

Every item of pornography and other erototoxic material should have a warning too:
Pornography kills women and children
Pornography seriously harms your brain and causes you to harm others around you