I am a woman born 1949 and my quest is to find a mindmate
to grow old together as a mutually devoted couple
in a relationship based upon the
egalitarian rational commitment paradigm
bonded by intrinsic commitment
as each other's safe haven and secure basis.

The purpose of this blog is to enable the right man
to recognize us as reciprocal mindmates and
to encourage him to contact me:

The entries directly concerning,
who could be my mindmate,
are mainly at the beginning.
If this is your predominant interest,
I suggest to read this blog in the same order
as it was written, following the numbers.

I am German, therefore my English is sometimes faulty.

Maybe you have stumbled upon this blog not as a potential match.
Please wait a short moment before zapping.

Do you know anybody, who could be my mindmate?
Your neighbour, brother, uncle, cousin, colleague, friend?
If so, please tell him to look at this blog.
While you have no reason to do this for me,
a stranger, maybe you can make someone happy, for whom you care.

Do you have your own webpage or blog,
which someone like my mindmate to be found probably reads?
If so, please mention my quest and add a link to this blog.

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

69. Mindmate Statistics

Mindmate Statistics

The following are rough estimates.    
From 100.000 men in my age group:
30 % may be neither in a relationship nor entangled in an emotional harem of ex-partners converted into pseudo-friends.  
==>  30.000
10 % may be bratfree, with no progeny of any age and no pets
==>  3.000
20 % may have at least spent some years at a college or university, with or without a degree
==>  600
10 % may be atheists and skeptics, who are not gullible to irrational claims of any kind, they share basic attitudes and a leaning towards leftist thinking
==>  60
25% would refuse a fling, when a woman is willing (source: entry 55)
==> 15
66% may not have any hazardous habit, like smoking, excessive drinking, overeating or a dangerous hobby like riding a motorcycle.   
==> 10

How many of those 10 are mature, responsible, sincere, capable to make a relationship emotionally beneficial for a woman?
How many have a personality to be attracted to the ERCP?
How many share some interests and tastes with me?

How many are looking for a person like me?

Logically, my quest is not limited by distance, it is only limited by the need to have good enough communication skills in one common language.  

I have links to this blog on several dating-sites, and sometimes I suggest new contacts to read this blog to find out more about me.   If you reading this now are one of the statistical few of my quest, and if I am too far away or if you think, that the world is full of potential mates, then I suggest, that you make your own statistics.