233. A Blog is Not an Autobiography
Someone asked me in a private email:
Someone asked me in a private email:
" ... you have had some crappy relationships with men. Personally I would have slapped the creeps and broken it off immediately instead of being subjected to indignity ...."
"How did you ever get yourself in those predicaments. I don't take you as naive? You seem too smart for that."
These are good questions, and I do not want to give the wrong impression, as if I were easy prey, prone to linger too long under outrageous treatment.
A blog is not an autobiography. It can be sometimes, when I tell explicitly, what has happened to me, from the snow in my garden to explicitly labelled true stories.
But the main purpose of this blog is to find my mindmate by making clear, what is important to me.
Examples, scenarios, metaphors, analogies are methods to add clarity to my thoughts. Their purpose is not to rant with the truth of an affidavit about bad experiences, but to illustrate, what I want and accept, and what not.
Some of them are modified own experiences, but some are the experiences of others or my own creation and imagination, maybe inspired by something that I have read.
So please do not confound me with a sheep ready for the next jerk.
A blog is not an autobiography. It can be sometimes, when I tell explicitly, what has happened to me, from the snow in my garden to explicitly labelled true stories.
But the main purpose of this blog is to find my mindmate by making clear, what is important to me.
Examples, scenarios, metaphors, analogies are methods to add clarity to my thoughts. Their purpose is not to rant with the truth of an affidavit about bad experiences, but to illustrate, what I want and accept, and what not.
Some of them are modified own experiences, but some are the experiences of others or my own creation and imagination, maybe inspired by something that I have read.
So please do not confound me with a sheep ready for the next jerk.
