Bears and Jerks
For a woman, bears and jerks have a lot in common.
When a woman hikes in the bear's territory with a backpack full of food, this is very dangerous. If the bear smells the food, he wants it. If the woman does not give it to him, the bear will attack her and harm her very seriously. She has no chance to find an agreement with the bear by constructive communication, the bear cannot be convinced, that the food is hers. He cannot even be talked into a compromise to share the food. He wants the food and he uses his power to get it. The bear is unable to comprehend any reasoning and cannot be influenced. The woman is helplessly at the mercy of the bear. If the woman does not keep at a safe distance and runs, whenever she sees a bear, he will harm her. The bear is a predator, the woman is the prey.
With a jerk (this includes the emotional moron), the situation is the same.
For a woman, bears and jerks have a lot in common.
When a woman hikes in the bear's territory with a backpack full of food, this is very dangerous. If the bear smells the food, he wants it. If the woman does not give it to him, the bear will attack her and harm her very seriously. She has no chance to find an agreement with the bear by constructive communication, the bear cannot be convinced, that the food is hers. He cannot even be talked into a compromise to share the food. He wants the food and he uses his power to get it. The bear is unable to comprehend any reasoning and cannot be influenced. The woman is helplessly at the mercy of the bear. If the woman does not keep at a safe distance and runs, whenever she sees a bear, he will harm her. The bear is a predator, the woman is the prey.
With a jerk (this includes the emotional moron), the situation is the same.
When a woman gets near a jerk, appearing to be a suitable commodity for him, this is very dangerous. If the jerk notices the benefits to be obtained from her, he wants them. If the woman does not submit to be a commodity, the jerk will attack her with rage and intimidation and harm her very seriously. She has no chance to find an agreement with the jerk by constructive communication, the jerk cannot be convinced, that the benefits are hers and only to be earned. He cannot even be talked into a compromise of a fair deal. He wants the benefits and he uses his power to get it. The jerk is unable to comprehend any reasoning and cannot be influenced. The woman is helplessly at the mercy of the jerk. If the woman does not keep at a safe distance and runs, whenever she sees a jerk, he will harm her. The jerk is a predator, the woman is the prey.
