I am a woman born 1949 and my quest is to find a mindmate
to grow old together as a mutually devoted couple
in a relationship based upon the
egalitarian rational commitment paradigm
bonded by intrinsic commitment
as each other's safe haven and secure basis.

The purpose of this blog is to enable the right man
to recognize us as reciprocal mindmates and
to encourage him to contact me:

The entries directly concerning,
who could be my mindmate,
are mainly at the beginning.
If this is your predominant interest,
I suggest to read this blog in the same order
as it was written, following the numbers.

I am German, therefore my English is sometimes faulty.

Maybe you have stumbled upon this blog not as a potential match.
Please wait a short moment before zapping.

Do you know anybody, who could be my mindmate?
Your neighbour, brother, uncle, cousin, colleague, friend?
If so, please tell him to look at this blog.
While you have no reason to do this for me,
a stranger, maybe you can make someone happy, for whom you care.

Do you have your own webpage or blog,
which someone like my mindmate to be found probably reads?
If so, please mention my quest and add a link to this blog.

Friday, January 28, 2011

224. Weird Innuendo

Weird Innuendo
In the feedback part of the forum of a 50+ dating-site, I politely suggested to improve the search criteria, so that I could look for someone childfree.    
This not only triggered a very aggressive discussion.   The weirdest reaction was the question, if I want someone without children, so I could inherit from him.   
Why on earth would someone at the age of 61 even think about inheriting?    When people at this age get involved to grow old together, then the one, who outlives the other, is more stricken with grief than rejoicing whatever heritage there were for the few years of life expectancy.